Sunday, September 14

New Look!


Ben and I are celebrating our 2nd anniversary a little early this year – basically because we have a hard time keeping secrets from each other!
Ben surprised me with my own DOT COM status and hosting! (Or as Ben likes to call it, “the gift of web presence.”) I’ve been so excited about this new domain that I’ve been working on it all weekend re-branding, writing posts, and more.
He knows me so well. So grateful for a husband who supports my passion to write, code and design – even if it is a little nerdy. He even animated an awesome promo video for social media and gave me a mini photo shoot. Best. Husband. Ever. :)
Check out my new website:

SYDNEEPEACOCK.COM

Happy reading!

Thursday, September 11

20 Life Hacks Learned in Married Life


Since being married for only two years, I’ve had to figure out a lot of things for the first time – mostly with cooking (since I didn’t do much of that before), but a few other things too. You will probably find these silly, but maybe (hopefully) you will appreciate some of my new found discoveries, too.
  1. I don’t cut my strawberries anymore. I get a straw, stick it through the strawberry from bottom to top and the nasty stem-part pops off!
  2. When it’s too cold outside to grill, I make my steaks and burgers in the oven – and I think they taste even better!
  3. I have no patience for cooking potatoes in the oven. (Does anyone have time to wait around for an hour+ for dinner anymore?) So I wrap them up in foil and stick them in the crockpot on low all day. They’re ready when I get home!
  4. I soften my butter by putting it in a cup and setting it on top of a warm stove while I’m preparing other things.
  5. The key to cooking rice on the stove without it sticking to the pot is mixing in a chunk of butter and not lifting the lid for at least 20 minutes.
  6. It’s actually possible to make a perfect, yellow omelet in the oven with a greased cast-iron skillet in just 5-6 minutes.
  7. Setting a wooden spoon on top of a boiling pot of water will keep it from overflowing onto my stove.
  8. My ice cream scoop doesn’t get ice cream stuck all over it if I dip it in warm water before scooping each scoop.
  9. I make tea in the coffeemaker by running hot water through the coffeemaker into a pot with tea bags dangling in the water.
  10. Homemade whip cream tastes way better. I just pour some whipping cream and powdered sugar into a bowl while mixing it with a hand mixer simultaneously. So fluffy!
  11. I eat my berries with a toothpick so I don’t have to clean silverware or stain my fingers.
  12. I fold my sheets and then stick them inside the matching pillowcases to keep the sets together.
  13. Amazon Prime and Target REDcard make my shopping experiences so much easier.
  14. Slicing up a little bit of fruit and cucumbers to put in water is an inexpensive way of serving refreshments to guests and making them think you’re fancier than you really are.
  15. Buying bulk paper towels, toilet paper, plates and cups twice a year from Sam’s keeps us stocked for the entire year.
  16. The step trashcan is God’s gift to cooks with their hands full.
  17. Ikea silverware lasts longer than the expensive silverware we got as wedding gifts.
  18. When going to a party, the key to giving a great gift is packaging it creatively – it’s half of excitement for the other person.
  19. Spending time with Jesus each morning puts me in a much better mood for the rest of my day.
  20. Keeping a magnetic notepad on my fridge has helped me to remember what I run out of, and better ensures that I restock it when I go to the store later that week.
I’m sure the list will continue to grow! Thanks for reading. :)

Wednesday, September 10

Tropical Smoothies from My Kitchen

In high school, I applied for a part-time job at Tropical Smoothie. I wanted to be a cashier, but had no idea that on my first day (and for the rest of my time there) I’d be sent to work in the kitchen instead.

Instead of getting a cool flip-flop t-shirt, I was demoted to wearing a purple Hawaiian-flowered button-down shirt that swallowed me. Oh, and it also had an enormous, colorful parrot on the front and backside. And BOOM – I became the festive-dressed girl behind the counter making everyone’s smoothies.

I did not enjoy the job at the time, but who knew that it would benefit me later? I know how to make some really good smoothies now! Ben gets so excited when I whip out the blender…even if it is obnoxiously loud. =D

So I thought that I’d break up the “green smoothie” trend with some good, old-fashioned, sweet, fresh-fruit smoothie and dessert smoothie recipes. Plus, its not officially fall until September 22, so we can still appropriately indulge!

Here’s one of my favorites:

Strawberry-Kiwi Smoothie
1 Serving

What you’ll need:
  • Blender
  • 1 tbsp turbinado
  • 4-5 pieces of cubed ice
  • 1 c defrosted strawberries, with the juices, or 1 c fresh strawberries and 2 tbsp water
  • 1-2 fresh kiwi, peeled and sliced
  1. Throw your ice in the blender, and then pour in turbinado. Shake it around and then place it on the blender.
  2. Put your fruit in and put the top on.
  3. Blend!
  4. If your machine stops blending well, take the glass container off the blender, and while holding the top, shake it. Then place back on blender to blend again.
  5. Add a little bit of water if you want your smoothie to have a thinner consistency.
  6. Pour it in a cup, stick a straw in it, and enjoy!
*For sweetest results, use defrosted frozen strawberries with juice.

Stay tuned for a few more smoothie recipes!

Tuesday, September 9

Are you living in a false sense of reality?



Did you know your social media news feeds are being rigged?

I read an article not too long ago about how social media, primarily Facebook, filters our news feeds. The things we post, the things we "like" (affirm), any of our activity on Facebook is remembered and used to generate content in our news feeds that is generally in line with our personal preferences and opinions.

For instance, if you're openly Christian, then you're probably going to see more Bible verse posts, posts about faith, pro-life posts or church posts.

If you're openly gay, you might see more posts of people who share the same lifestyle, news that promote equality, or sites that offer jobs that don't discriminate.

If you're in college, you might see posts about campus life, classes, music app updates, Buzzfeed lists or popular YouTube videos.

Basically, the posts you see largely cater to your life stage and lifestyle. Unfortunately, the way this system filters our feeds can affect how we view people, life, society and culture.

On Instagram and Twitter, we can choose who we follow. If we don't like someone's posts, we can easily "unfollow" them. We filter through who we want to keep up with and what we want to know. And this can also tailor our outlook on life.

It's basically the same thing as committing to not watching the news. Crazy enough, in college (although I was a journalism major), I preferred not to keep up with local news. I lived in Memphis, one of the most dangerous cities in the USA, and frankly, I chose not to watch the local news because I wanted to live in blissful ignorance of what was really going on around me.

But I realize now that I was being selfish and close-minded.

I understand that it's important to keep up with what's going on – not just in nearby areas, but everywhere. I think this is important especially for Christians to know what's going on, and how to respond. By simply tuning into social media on a broader level, we can become aware of what's going on in our world, and our own posts and presence can surprisingly make a big difference. Here are three things we ought to keep in mind:

#1 We should be culturally relevant.

If we block out the world, how can we change it? Find out what's trending, what's viral, what people are really talking about. Then line it all up with Scripture, and ground yourself in God's Word (1 Thessalonians 5:21).

Romans 12:2 says "Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect." So basically, we should be in the world, but not of the world.

Plus, if we are staying culturally relevant, we can more easily relate to people who don't believe in Jesus, and form relationships we wouldn't have been able to otherwise. All of this may ultimately help us with the mission of effectively and lovingly sharing the Gospel. Here are a few account types I have thought of that might help us stay more current:

  • People We Know on a First Name Basis (Remember those old friends from high school and earlier? We may not see them every day in person, but this helps us remember how we can pray for them more specifically – even if they don't know it.)
  • Culturally Influential People (examples: Jimmy Fallon, Ellen Degeneres, Justin Timberlake, Kim Kardashian, Oprah, Lebron James, etc.)
  • Well-known Publications (examples: Time, New York Times, CNN, The Onion, Huffington Post, Gizmodo, Wired, Ted Talks, The Thought Catalog, etc.)
  • Christian Influential People/Organizations (examples: John Piper, Lecrae, doctrinally-sound well-known churches, ERLC [Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission of the SBC], Dr. Russell Moore, World Magazine, etc.)

#2 See People as God Sees People.

God exhibits extreme patience and understanding toward us. It's hard to comprehend because we can have such a difficult time with having patience and being understanding toward others. Thankfully, God shows us grace and mercy every day, and is so patient with every person (2 Peter 3:9). And that is a great example of how we should be toward others.

When we see people's angry, negative or unbecoming posts pop up on our news feeds, instead of loudly exhaling and checking "unfollow," we can pray for them. Life is hard without Jesus. We need to have compassion for those who have not yet come to believe in Him. We can't expect non-Christians to retain Christian values. To them, it's just a bunch of rules with no meaning. Life is also hard for Christians who have chosen not to walk in the Spirit. It is human nature to fall away if we're not grounding ourselves in His Word every day. As the church, we are to encourage each other toward Jesus, and be at peace with everyone. And we can do this with our social media presence.

#3 We have an influential voice online.

We can be encouraging and real online. We can be relevant and understanding toward others, speaking the Truth in love. Everyone has access to read what we post. We must be mindful that everything we say can affect someone else. And we need to always be prepared to make a defense for the Gospel (1 Peter 3:14-16). Let's share our joys and sorrows tactfully. And lastly, let's choose our words carefully – as we should at any other time – remembering that we must maintain a good reputation because we represent Christ (1 Peter 2:12).

Be the light in your friends' news feeds. You just never know who's reading. :)